Today I’m sharing with you my research to why rich good-looking men settle for the unattractive woman. This is not the norm, but it does happen!
For some, this might come as a surprise since rich, attractive men can afford to be selective and often have a harem of women willing to partner up. Yet some of them opt for the less attractive woman which is exactly what I will be investigating in today’s video!
Find below the summary and notes from my research:
He is insecure
- Some men don’t realize they are attractive as they might be insecure and suffer from low self-esteem. They devalue themselves, resulting in them getting a partner from a lower league.
- This man might be insecure about the woman potentially run off and cheat on him, so he chooses a less attractive partner that will give him “peace of mind”.
He is jealous
This actually also stems from insecurity. This man would control his jealousy and control his woman by choosing a less attractive women that he knows less men will fancy and give attention to.
He has different preferences
Not all men have beauty as their number one when choosing a partner! Some men have other priorities like intelligence, caregiving abilities, sexiness, charm, assertiveness, wisdom etc.
Don’t forget – Timing Is Everything!
To nail down a guy is usually only bound to timing. If you catch them at the right moment, for example when he is weak, vulnerable or going through rough times – you have a good chance of securing the guy for a serious relationship or marriage!
The Rebel of the Looks
Very good looking men can sometimes feel tired of being objectified for their looks. They might feel tired of the shallowness, hence decide to choose a partner based on other deeper criteria.
He is looking for depth
This type is tired of dating models and beauty queens who are self-obsessed, spoiled, superficial and driven only by the appearances and social status. He is on a serious hunt to find a woman that will stimulate his needs beyond the looks and appearance.
He is looking for the right background
Fairly common with men who come from family money or old money families. They are often educated to find a partner “from their own kind”. Meaning her background and upbringing will play an important role, which is why the looks won’t be the top priority.
Remember: What’s Attractive is Very Subjective!
Beauty is relative. Not all men find Angelina Jolie attractive. Studies have proven, when men rate female appearance – they disagree! What one man finds very attractive and rate as 5 out of 5, another can rate as 1.
They Want to be the Center of Attention
Self-obsessed hunks might not want to compete with their women. We all know it’s often the woman who should be the center of attention and the queen since traditionally she carries more beauty and elegance than a man. But some attention seeking guys want the spotlight on them only.
Please note ladies. All women are beautiful! The message is that there isn’t one size fits all, everyone is different with different tastebuds! What one man might find attractive, another person might not and vice versa.
What do YOU think on this topic, why rich handsome men marry unattractive women?