Personality does count in your elegant transformation and there is a lot of acting you can add on to it if you wanna go hardcore and succeed in high society. However, it’s important not to lose yourself.
It’s true that some men value a pretty face more than personality, but these are the type of men who you should stay away from anyways. Believe me, there are a lot of negative people out there and you need to stay clear of them.
Some people might think that you have to put on an act to blend in. And that’s very true, as there are many do’s & don’ts in high society. It’s normal to have to adapt your behavior when you want to become part of a new group. However, I really believe that you can do that while not losing yourself or erasing your personality. You can be elegant and classy while still being unique.
Blend in and adapt to the rules if you wish, but stay true to who you are and don’t be afraid to show your true colours!
It’s hard in the beginning to get the expensive, elegant lady look as it can require some financial investment. It takes time to build up, but it will come eventually. There are definitely ladies who
have sponsors, but I personally prefer the slower but self-sufficient route.
The only thing I can say is that it takes time, but there is so much you can do yourself to look refined and sophisticated. Plus, not everyone needs to have plastic surgery and designer items to look like an elegant lady.