Many women reach out to me asking why they cannot meet any decent affluent men. These women might be beautiful, successful and great catches – yet they are not able to meet Mr. Rich & Marrying kind or keep him.
Sadly, this is the brutal reality of dating today. It’s a harsh dating climate out there! It’s even tougher in high-society!
And the bigger city you’re in, the harder it gets!
So what’s actually happening in this scenario?
There are a few facts to take into consideration.
Beauty is more accessible today → More women are beautiful → As a woman you have more competition!
Men are more spoiled for choice → Women become more desperate → It spoils men even more!
This is a vicious circle that we need to stop!
The Internet has created easy access for men and women to meet. So men have it easier and don’t need to make as much effort with courting and investing in a woman. As a result, women become more desperate.
But it spoils men even more!
That was some environmental examples for you.
It would be easy to stop there, right?
Sadly, a lot of women do. They love blaming their dating misfortunes on everything and everyone.
Anyone but themselves of course!
What’s important however is to take into consideration if there are more reasons than just the environmental.
So WHY are you still single?!
Most likely the biggest reason will boil down to your own self. Whether you want to admit it or not, but you’re not perfect!
Nobody is, and we’re not striving to become perfect.
Some of your inner imperfections might be the reason why your dating life is not working.
You should prioritize taking a closer look to why you can’t make it work with the type of man you want.
Take also a look at your expectations.
Ask yourself a very important question:
If you meet this perfect man, could YOU live up to his level?
How leveled up are you in relation to him being
- with a six-pack
- intellectual, etc.?
Are you aligned with all these things on your checklist?
Scrutinizing yourself is not a bad thing to do! Coming to terms with your weaknesses is exactly what will make you grow as a woman and become the best version of yourself.
I tell the students in School Of Affluence all the time! It’s important to understand where you must improve – if you WANT to improve.
Then once you become that version, you will also notice a big change in your dating life…
That’s how it was for me and I’m so glad I took all that money, efforts and re-invested in myself.
I got my return on investment!