Thursday, February 20

What Makes A Woman So Irresistible To The Affluent Man?

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What type of woman achieves the best success in the jet-set world? What woman becomes instantly attractive in the wealthy man’s eye? Is it the luxurious babe covered in diamonds and fur or the more down to earth girl who has nothing to prove?

It’s all about the latter.

The “in your face” trend has become extremely passé. In today’s society where everyone is investing in their looks, it’s nothing special anymore to have an extravagant wardrobe and Instagram-perfect face and body. With surgery, anyone can make themselves look perfect, and everyone is getting that look, good looks has become mainstream.

The same goes for the need some JetsetBabes have, to look rich. They assume that the richer they make themselves look, the wealthier man they will find.
When a man sees a woman covered in luxury and diamonds, he doesn’t value her more because she looks expensive. Instead, he ask’s himself “Who is buying her all this?” Men know that if a woman comes’s from a rich family, she would never be flaunting wealth in an obvious way, putting it all for show. It sure attracts attention, but it will not attract a serious man who has long-term intentions with you. Most often it puts off the good guys.

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But that’s just looks. What about the character?

In the private JetsetBabe group on Facebook, we’ve had interesting discussions on this topic, as peoples opinions vary.

My opinion and experience have given me this knowledge over the years:
If you want to get a high-quality man, you have to be a high-quality woman yourself. You can’t have attitude and treat men like they owe you something. You have to be genuine and down to earth, a sweet person who not only takes but gives too.

As I was mentioning at the beginning, in today’s world beautiful girls are everywhere. Beauty is not hard to find these days. But a beautiful inside is rarer. And that’s why men prioritize that, no matter how visual they are (looks still matter for them, but it’s not everything.)

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Никогда не понимала, зачем некоторые люди пишут негативные комментарии под фото других. Это ж надо зайти на страницу, просмотреть фото, «прочувствовать» характер хозяина странички, вступить с ним в дискуссию. Короче, целый процесс 😂 В этом деле главное, вынести все своё внутреннее 💩🤮 наружу. Нужно же понимать, что ваш кумир, ну никак не обойдётся без вашего поучительного (или оскорбительного, негативного) коммента. А прочитав его (комментарий) сразу же пойдёт исправляться в угодную вам сторону. К примеру, очень интересный коммент «шлюха». Пишут его хейтеры-эксперты. Так сказать, с высоты прожитых лет, одним взглядом определяют социальный статус «объекта». У них на такие вещи глаз намётан 😂 обычные атрибуты (признаки) этого статуса: отсутствие совместных фото с парнем, путешествия, присутствие дорогих авто и подарков 😄☝🏻 Следующая категория – хейтеры-философы. Это блюстители морали, правильности жизни. Они обычно пишут «бла бла бла смотри как делаю я, учись». Осуждение всей жизни человека по фото – вот конёк этой категории. Их хлебом не корми, дай порыться в чужом белье и вставить свои пять копеек😁 Обычно пишут с фейков, либо закрытых страниц, тк кишка тонка осуждать человека со своей личной и открытой странички. Сами, как правило, ничего из себя не представляют. Ещё можно выделить категорию – хейтеров-шёлмимо. Они как рыбы-прилипала к хейтерам-философам🤣 их текст примерно такой: «да и вообще я с вами согласна, она страшная/не нравится мне/тупая; я мимо шла, случайно на страницу этой телки попала». Дальше они продолжают милую беседу с «философом», объединившись на теме негативного отношения к объекту обсуждения😄 Кайфуют от того, что их мнение замечает хоть кто-то. Следующая категория, моя любимая☺️ я ее называю энви-хейтеры (или завистливые, обиженные жизнью). Их комменты: «цветы напрокат взяла, пакеты на Дубровке купила, носит фейки 🤮, машина не ее». Не могут поверить в то, что у кого-то может быть лучше, чем у них😐 А на самом деле, все эти люди самые преданные поклонники блогеров, ведь они заходят, пишут, обсуждают, не остаются равнодушными☺️ ребят, спасибо, что вы у меня есть, я вас ценю✌🏻 жду ваших неравнодушных отзывов в комментариях 😼

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Men value normal women, who are drama-free while being 100% genuine and confident. They want someone who can make them happy, instead of a woman giving them only headaches and demands. I know this because I’ve researched it a lot during my years in the jet-set scene. I saw what type of women men end up marrying, and asked tons of guys about what qualities they’re looking for. They all gave me the same answers.

Please note. There are many “low-quality” men out there. Men who are selfish, not genuine themselves and with you for the wrong reasons. With these men, it would never work being a good woman like I describe, as you will end up getting played. But this post is not about these men, as smart women stay away from men of this kind. It’s important not to mix them up because they are a whole different story and the jet-set scene has a lot of them which requires a red flag alert and keeping a distance!


But if you’re single and want to meet an affluent man, who is a good guy and to build your future with, make sure to do this:

  • Drop any form of games playing
  • Drop any attitude or defenses that you may have
  • Be humble, sweet, kind person who is pleasant to be around
  • Give as much as you get
  • Never turn yourself into a doormat, respect yourself at all times
  • Be authentic and don’t be afraid of showing vulnerability (as long as you don’t overdo it)
  • Stay grounded and humble
  • Work on your pains from the past and start believing that there are great men out there who will not disappoint you
  • Don’t be afraid of showing the real you, be yourself
  • Take care of your looks, but don’t overdo it, have good taste


And one more thing…

Stay classy because classy men adore classy women.
If you upgrade yourself, as I’ve written in my book “How To Be Classy,” you’ll attract a high-standard man into your life. If you choose to have a less classy approach, unfortunately, you’ll end up attracting more low-quality men.

This formula has been tested personally by myself and others that I know, and I can say it creates wonders when you do a self-transformation and work on yourself! If only more people were doing it…



About Author

Anna Bey is the founder of JetsetBabe and School of Affluence - and online educational platform helping women achieve elegance and get an affluent life. Visit for more info! P.S Don't miss her Youtube channel & Instagram.


  1. Partly agree, but I know that in Russia many affluent men do get married to ex stripper dancers and women of this kind.
    I think every man has their type of a woman. Some powerful men get atttacted to a woman who can dominate them in some ways 😉 While others like very soft and kind women.
    I think it’s very personal choice related to one’s subconscious.

    • Its because stripes are many time very confident, that is how they get good men. It takes a lot of courage to dance naked in front of a bunch of mes right? In top of that they are good looking as well. And some of them can be really classy and cute on the street, you would never guess. I use to judge strippers but then it happen that a girl I know worked as a stripper for a while. She was a very confident woman, she made good money and open her own Hair salon after all. She ended up marrying a good guy with money. Then is when I change my view about strippers. They actually can be good women and understand men very very well. They know exactly what they like and what they dont, they know their vulnerability/strength and most important, are confident around them with closing or without on. While many other girls lacks confidence etc

  2. Anna, this is a great post! I love that your blog has become more classier and even more motivational. It is such a shame that the FB group has lately become a complete opposite.

  3. You can not believe the excitement when I received an e-mail about you starting to blog again!! I used to read your blogposts over and over again back in 2014! Thank you!

  4. Very nice article Anna and welcome back I just saw your email today and am going through all your new posts. I think men like down to earth girls who can be goofy at times and be their best friends. Looks are still important though 🙂 if you can combine both, it attracts men for sure.

  5. Ana, since you have came back the level of your articles has gone up, some of them are much more profound in a very simple magazine way.. very light to read but with a big message behind those simple words. But here I do not agree with you. First of all.. Your perception of what men like is based on what they have told yu after you asked them?? Seriously girl? And why do you assume men know what they know? People always lie themselves and want to see themselves in a certain way, so the fact that a man tells you he like a natural looking girl or a woman with no make up, who is very simple, easy-going and no demanding, means nothing! You should look at what men DO , not what do they SAY. Cause most of the people claim they like one thing but their actions and choises in life speak louder. You are smart about some things and so incredibly naive when it comes to anothers! 😀 You sound like some teenage girl who says: “I asked them and they told me…” 😀 Just look around you! Men like non-demanding women only at the beginning. After that you have to always set the bar higher and high otherwise they get bored and go search for challanges elsewhere. So you have to provide him those. And what a wealthy man finds IRRESISTABLE is not to have sex with him or make him wait really long and earn it! That`s it. So simpl! Men who are used to get everything and especially when it comes to women who are just throwing themselves in their beds, can be impressed only by a woman who doesn`t do the same as every other woman. And you haven`t mentioned abything about that.

    • Thank you for your feedback, I’m glad you prefer my new content! <3 With regards to this blog post, it's difficult to talk about men because you must generalise and many of them are different. You are also generalising in your comment here, on some terms that I totally disagree with you on. Maybe we have different experiences and learned different things? Of course when I say I've spoken to men, I base it not only on what they tell me but also what my intuition says about them and their actions. I don't feel I need to elaborate in exact detail how I make my research and how I learned to see through people.
      With regards to your last comment about sex early on, I didn't include it on purpose because I disagree. My experience have been different. It works in some cases very well, and in some cases not. Not going to get in to my personal life now, but I don't want to educate something I don't fully believe in 🙂

  6. I partially agree with the article. Good looks and youth are very important and I’m not talking about the mainstream Instagram fake faces but real beauty.
    Also I think that education is what makes a woman stand out..

  7. Very good article Anna! But those things are kid of basic….

    I would add so much more deeper things rich men are looking for in a woman…

  8. I have recently found your videos and today your articles. Well done! I thoroughly enjoy your posts and your spirit of elegance and sensuality as well as your bold embrace of luxury and ease. I find you decadent and kind, and a breath of fresh air!

    I am married to the multi-million dollar man of my dreams and we have three angels together. I totally agree with you on pretty much every point. And do you know what you will love about this? On a “Law of Attraction level (I know that LOA touches your heart), it is impossible…by law…to attract someone who is not an exact vibrational match to ourselves. So if a woman is expressing herself one way but her vibration is in contradiction, she walks the high end walk and talks the high end talk but at heart she’s insecure and feels unworthy, she will attract a man who is likewise contradictory in his vibe. And that may be a man who disrespects her, cheats, or is a verbal abuser, etc. He will reflect to her the contradiction she vibrates. She will reflect his.

    Smart, fun article. Well done. 😊

  9. Anna I wanted to buy your book “How to be classy” but I can’t find it anywhere.
    I actually wanted to take up your online finishing course but it’s a bit too expensive for me now so I thought maybe I could just use the book .
    Please suggest something about how can I get your book ?
    I really admire you and would really love having a book written by you .

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