To become a JetsetBabe, a woman has to raise her caliber to a higher level. She has to be able to play comfortably with the best of the best, by being a refined – top notch – version of herself. In today’s world, it’s effortless to be a Plain Jane, because most women are. But to raise yourself and your image to the next level, that’s something many women find challenging.
To some degree, some might manage by tweaking their looks so they look attractive like all the JetsetBabes. They get in shape, buy the right clothes and groom themselves to perfection. But there’s still this element about them that feels so plain. Their looks can take them far, but it’s never the one thing that leads to success. The formula for mastering this is a mixture of important factors that a woman has to get “just right.”
One big part of the formula is personality.
Personality, Character and Your Charisma
Who are you? What’s interesting about you? What story do you have to tell? What’s your persona? What’s so special about you? What impression do you leave?
What many tend to lack, is charm and charisma. Or at least showing it to the world. In a world where women are more suppressed than men, it’s understandable that women’s personalities never get the same chance to “bloom” like of men. It starts already when we’re kids; boys are allowed to roam and express their lively energy, while girls are encouraged to be “good girls,” sit quietly and help the teacher.
The lack of character can also come from the many insecurities us women accumulate over the years. We don’t manage to connect with our true identity because of inner blockages, or we’re too afraid of showing it to the world – fear of being judged. There are also cultural and social guidelines for “how a woman should be,” which we may adopt and let it shape our personality (or suppress it).
So what do I mean with personalities that are plain?
We’ve all come across people that don’t leave any impression on us. They are like empty shells. They might be nice and polite, but they don’t spark an interest in people because they are either too mellow or just dull. They might not know how to form an opinion or over abuse the phrase “I don’t know.” Or when you talk to them about something, they talk in clichés and generic terms.
The feeling you get is that you’re not talking to a real person, but some dummy of one. Plain personalities can be more than this, but just to give a rough example.
What personality should a successful JetsetBabe have?
There isn’t one type of personality that’s better than the other, so the point is not to change into someone you’re not! Successful JetsetBabes are women who leave an impression on people, regardless of what’s in the mix. But it’s about the ability and authenticity; about being yourself, embracing your character and making people feel good in your presence.
You can have your flaws; you can have your positives. You can be loud, you can be quiet, you can be edgy, quirky, mysterious, shy – you name it! But it has to be who you are, and you have to have the confidence to showcase your true colors. There is nothing sexier than a woman who is so at peace with who she is, that she’s able to shine by being her true self.
Confidence stems from self-acceptance and being yourself. It’s all about letting go of protective defense mechanisms, incorrect beliefs of how a woman should be, and the fear of not being good enough (if people get to see the real you).
What about the negatives in a personality?
You will never appeal to everyone. I will never appeal to everyone. We all have traits in our personalities that will clash with the personalities and taste buds of others. It’s there for impossible to be a person that will be liked by everyone. And that’s a fact that you must simply accept.
Once you have (truly) accepted this, it will be easier for you to relax into your own essence and just be who you are. When you don’t take others into account, you’re free to be who you are. That will include the negative traits in your personality; it’s ok to have them.
You can choose to work on them, because that might benefit you. Always work on yourself with the goal to refine yourself (not become a different person), and soften the flaws. You can keep some innocent ones, because sometimes they’re quite interesting and adds great uniqueness to a person.
The philosophy behind an interesting persona
Not all women should be picture perfect with “oh so pleasant personalities.” That’s just dull and very Plain Jane.
It’s about who is hiding inside you that we want to see. Get rid of the obstacles hindering your personality to bloom, and out with the REAL you.
Put your true energy on display, depending on your moods and situation. Often we have different types of personalities. In some situations or with some people we can feel very much in one way, with others we are more another way. All of that is You; the difference is, people and situations bring out different energies in you. So be open to that flexibility!
Confidence is key and the main ingredient to an interesting character. Work on that because it will upgrade your personality to a higher level (where you’ll be on the same wavelength as established jet-setters and others of high status.)
Charm and charisma will take you far in life, and certainly on your jet-setting journey! Make sure you’ll settle well in your positive attitude and confident skin. People who are charming and charismatic can lift an entire room and leave a remarkable impression on people.
It’s all about being a genuine person, full of empathy and compassion. The mission is to make people good and develop trust. It’s done by 100% authenticity and vulnerability. By not being afraid of putting yourself out there, while having the skills to read people and situations correctly.
If you want to be a successful JetsetBabe, if you want to network easier, catch more attention from men – getting rid of your Plain Jane personality is a must! Men will adore you, and people will get drawn to you because you’re unique.
If you have a charismatic personality, you can get away with not being the prettiest girl in the room or the one of high status. People will appreciate your presence because of who you are, not because of what you can offer. And knowing that in such a superficial world, might be the best feeling ever…