It may be hard to understand how much money one might need to elevate their lifestyle. One thing is for sure – you will definitely need decent finances!
In terms of accessing high society circles, the rules are different for men and women. Men without the right finances cannot access high society as easily as women can.
Whether it’s your own or a man’s, everything in life costs money!
Ladies can use their beauty and femininity to get their foot in the door. However, a man must have finances to be part of the elite community.
There are of course exceptions, but usually, men need something unique to bring to the table in order to get accepted in sophisticated circles.
While some might think ladies get a “free ride” into high society, they still need to invest money and time into their appearances to stand a chance among the fierce competition.
This is why it’s so unfair for us ladies to go 50/50 with men, as we have greater expenses and have to keep up with societal beauty standards. It’s costly to look so expensive, classy and elegant. “How much?” is a question that’s hard to define.
It all depends on what level you start from! We’re all different. Some have a steeper hill to climb, while others have a better starting point. However, everyone and anyone has the ability to elevate their lifestyle. It’s just about identifying what you need to improve on, finding financial solutions and taking action. If there’s a will, there’s a way!
An important thing to remember is that not everything has to be expensive in your journey of transformation! A lot of things are actually free of charge, like improving your manners, body language and the way you speak. The same applies to improving knowledge. Reading books, keeping up with current affairs and researching doesn’t cost that much. Good etiquette and manners are free of charge.
The costly things are beauty, fashion, networking and lifestyle. It all adds up! You can definitely do things gradually as no lifestyle upgrade happens overnight.
My suggestion is that you just start and take action, even if it’s something small.
Everyone can level up as you can always start with the things that are free!
Also, remember that your journey will gradually become less expensive as you continue to educate yourself. If you develop an eye for fashion, learn effective networking skills and understand how to properly groom yourself (without resorting to plastic surgery) then you’ll save time and money by making the right decisions for yourself from the beginning.
A lifestyle upgrade is only expensive when you’re clueless. Some ladies hire the wrong professionals, make wrong decisions and never take the time to learn what looks good, classy and feminine on them. That’s money wasted!
Make sure you do the following:
- Seek out the right role models
- Read books
- Take courses (My online finishing school, School Of Affluence, for example)
- Take things slow
Sometimes the long way is the shortest way. Patience in combination with action is what will make you a winner!
You’re right!
I’m starting my level up journey with free things. I’m reading almost everyday books that will help me get the right mindset, I’m reading the news, keeping up with your blog and youtube and having a more balanced diet (so that I can lose weight).
You’re the best rolemodel on the internet, your advice is always so precious.
Next thing I want to do in my level up journey is improving my skincare! But that, unfortunatly, isn’t free! And also, my wardrobe needs a makeover (but that will take more time).
I’m on that level up tip myself, my diet is on point, make up tutorials coming along…now working on my wardrobe. I love your Blog.
Anna, can you recommend us some readings about good manners and etiquette?
Really nice..and enlightening
Your website still has the default Latin words on the sign ups. Nice try though.