Ladies who are looking to meet high-value men for dating and relationships should pay attention. Like everything in life, there are always exceptions and never a “one size fits all” approach. Different types of men require different approaches, even though some general guidelines might help.
The way an elegant lady is successful on the high society dating scene is by creating a strong personal brand for herself. She’s also clever and never loses herself or gets too carried away in emotions during these love affairs. She’s always ladylike and feminine.
Strategy is essential, but being a genuine person who is ready for love is equally important. In the initial phases, it’s all about keeping a bit of poker face but later you can let go of that…
But let me explain a little bit better…
Strategy For Dating High-Caliber Men
▸ Always look your very best to attract the finest men. (This is why I talk so much about transformation!)
▸ Position yourself as a lady of high caliber. You need to plant that seed in his mind.
▸ From the beginning, make a stand that you’re not paying for anything. But do it politely and never act in the spoiled diva “treat me like a princess” way.
▸ In the beginning high-value men might test to see how greedy you are and if you’re only with him because of his money. Make sure to pass this test by not being greedy.
▸ Be genuinely busy in life so that you don’t need to play any games.
▸ Be hard to get because you’re genuinely busy, but don’t overdo it because you still want to keep him interested. Give him small rewards of your attention from time to time.
▸ Look your very best. Be mysterious, fun, feminine, sensual, but always be yourself, the confident and best version of yourself! He’s got more of you now, but you’re still not 100% available.
During this phase, he has to feel he can develop trust in you so you can settle into a relationship. Always be authentic and trustworthy, don’t be flaky even though you’re busy.
Continue being on your very best etiquette and manners. Avoid any drama, pressure and desperate acts. Let him lead and be the man. If you would like something, do it in a clever “feminine way” where he thinks it was all his idea. Plant seeds in him and reward him when he delivers.
How it should be…
▸ When you’re finally officially boyfriend and girlfriend, the new chapter starts when it’s all about enjoying the honeymoon phase yet keeping things interesting. Don’t relax too much, be still on your best etiquette and start learning about the dynamic of your relationship.
Never downgrade yourself. Always look attractive and keep taking care of your appearance and your mind. Train daily, eat healthy and wear your best outfits in his presence. Personality wise, continue to be the best version of yourself – just like the person he fell in love with.
Now you can finally offer him your entire loving and caring self. Treat him like your man while still not be 100% available for him. It’s important that you have some form of independence and that you’re busy in your life. Otherwise, he might feel you’re too needy, or he can have you around the clock (that’s never healthy for any relationship!).
Always keep the passion burning. The goal is to keep the relationship as balanced as possible to avoid fights and problems. Make sure to work on yourself during this time.
Dating high-value men is of course quite complex, and an article like this won’t bring out the entire picture. But I’m just here to give you some ideas of what I’ve experienced, seen and heard.
The goal is to eventually meet your final destination in life, where you’ll get the love you deserve.
Anna I have adored you and this blog from Day 1! As a fellow Jetset babe myself I love harboring this little secret that I visit your blog daily to continue growing in my relationships, image, and daily way of living.Your boyfriend contributed great tips on this topic.
is that your own experience??
Anna Bey says
I’ve mentioned already it’s a mix of own experience, observations, my boyfriends input and case studies of others
I like this post because it’s a good guide for catching and dating not only rich/wealthy man but any good man who’s worth the effort.
Also, I like that your boyfriend gave some input, I would have thought it’s awkward for guys to get to know there’s a calculated plan behind dating them, not sure what my husband would have said about this.. 😀 but it’s nice and informative especially also because of your hubby’s input! Thanks!
You`ve described everything I have always did. I COMPLETELY agree with everything you said!
great post as always
OUTSTANDING ARTICLE which will help me immensely as I’m always the girl who puts herself on fire just to keep the other warm, and need to get out of this scheme. These steps sure help me to get a clear insight of the mentality to get and what has to be done !
Would you suggest not sleeping with a guy before you are in a relationship/ exclusive?