Unfortunately, negative people are everywhere. Their cynical views and dismissive attitude can truly bring you down and distract you from pursuing your dreams. One thing is for sure: negativity is definitely not a quality of a high-value woman.
Elegant, refined, classy and sophisticated women support one another and encourage each other to pursue their dreams and ambitions. After all, negativity and good etiquette don’t go hand in hand.
In the past, I definitely encountered and surrounded myself with a few negative bad apples. They put down my goals and aspirations and had no motivation to take action in their own lives. After a while, mingling with this crowd became incredibly draining and distracting for me. I got bored of these negative people, and decided to actively curate a more positive, elegant and refined network.
I do still encounter negative people from time to time. However, I make sure to not incorporate these people into my close social circle. After all, you become the people you surround yourself with! For that reason, surrounding yourself with elegant, like-minded, refined high-value women will have a massive impact on your life and your journey of elegant self-transformation.
If you’re bored of negative people just like I am, try out these tips:
Curate your social circle
Your close-knit circle of friends should be carefully curated. Their qualities, mindset and vibe should match your own and bring out the best in you. You should feel motivated, confident and happy in their presence. Most importantly, they shouldn’t put you down or dismiss your elegant aspirations.
Mingle in big crowds
If you’re still curating your social circle, try to mingle in big crowds. You’ll have a higher likelihood of meeting more positive people. This diverse mix is great for helping you connect with all sorts of people, especially elegant, high-value ones!
Stick to light-hearted topics
If you’re stuck in a situation with a negative person, stick to light topics. Never reveal your dreams, ambitions or personal affairs as they’ll most likely have only bad things to say. Sticking to lighter topics will prevent any negative commentary, or off-putting comments.
Practicing affirmations is great for keeping up that positive momentum. If you’re around negative people, practicing positive affirmations is especially important for channeling high-vibrational energy and getting you out of that depressive funk.