This is a phase some of us go through – the barbie doll look.
Maybe it’s an age thing, but I remember when I was in my early 20’s I thought a beautiful woman should be sexy;
She should have big long hair (fill it up with extensions),
loads of make up (especially going strong with eye shadow giving you mysterious cat eyes),
as much lips as possible (lipgloss, lipstick, who cares!),
long fake nails (let’s go acrylics)
tight short dresses that show off those curves and cleavage
and not to forget – a pair of very high heels (platform included) that screams “come and fuck me”.
Yes. There was a time in my life that I thought desired beauty was all about being a Barbie doll. Or at least to look as similar to one as possible. And I did my share of failed imitations!
However My taste changed several years ago, and today I love anything natural. Less make up, less sex, less fake! But not to the point of becoming boring of course.
This is when you need to have that perfect blend of being natural and classy yet have your sex appeal without people noticing it too much. After all, we are females and it’s in our genetics to make us look as attractive as possible so that we can attract the best suitable mate.
And like I’ve mentioned many times on the blog, if we’re actually going to listen to what the men really want – it’s less is more. More natural and less of the fake stuff.
My motto; everything in moderation. Balance will do you good. A little bit of this, and a little bit of that. Mixing it to your personal perfection. After all, you need to create your own blend, the one that screams “YOU!”.
But it’s easy to go blind, so do a little bit of self evaluation from time to time. Ask your friends to be honest with you, if they see something you cannot see. We all go through periods in our lives when we think we look better than we actually do. I sure went through that a few times