I’ve been in Thailand now 1 week and I need to share with you another evidence to why traveling on your own is not that daunting in terms of loneliness.
So I woke up on Sunday in a sunny Phuket, knowing that I was completely new in a country and place I’ve never been to before. The feeling of “shit, I really don’t know not even a single person here” came upon me.
In Bali I made friends imediatly, and I didn’t have many days of just being on my own. So I kind of got used of being able to message people and have company, but now it was like I had to start from scratch again!
That sunday I felt a little bit of loneliess like the reality check really hit me, that there was absolutely no one here I could meet!
So I said “Fuck it” and got dressed, to go for a few drinks (on my own) to Nikki Beach.
So here is your evidence;
As soon as I walked in I asked my intution which bar to sit down at. “Left or right?”.
Intuition said “right”. I walked up to the bar and saw an empty chair next to 2 girls. I asked politely if It was free and sat down to order a Margarita. Then I asked where they were from and we got talking. And dancing. And exchanging numbers.
When they had to leave, another group of russians approached me. We started talking. Then one said that they were gonna go for sauna and massage, and that I could join because it was someones birthday. And rule number one; Always say YES if your intuition says so. Which it did, so I said, “Let’s go guys”. (They were a group of boys and girls)
So we went to this sauna, then we went for dinner, then we went to their villa, and then we just partied all night.
I woke up on their sofa like “Good morning my new friends, whats up” and we’ve been hanging out all of us ever since.
One of the girls in this russian group, is soooo cool! Love her! She is so much fun and I can’t stop laughing being around her.
We clicked so well, I actually moved in with her in her villa after just a few days of knowing each other. She was on her own anyway so might as well create a sorority club out of that place…
…And man have we’ve been having fun!
Proper “Girls Just Wanna Have Fun”- material!
We’ve been partying quite a lot, but also having bbq’s and pool sessions at the villa. Life is so great when you’re in the best company…
To summarize: Traveling on your own is great. I would not have been in this situation if I was traveling with someone. Just wouldn’t happen.
And if you’re an open person who sends out positive energy, then you attract people to yourself and you’re never lonely.
I love life and I’m happy life proved to me once more that I don’t need to be all control freak and fear being alone. Everything always resolve itself anyway, so why make such a fuzz about it?